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| Written by Bakunyuubaka on April 25 2008
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ok... so I havent been on P3 lately.. as u all have known... I have been quitet busy with my life... between work and school... well let me give u a summary so far of wats been going on... school is fine work is boring... now for the interesting part... ok.. well i have this gf that i though we broke up since the face she would never return my calls and such and she uploads some other dudes picture... so i went my way found a new gf and was living my life... now this is a summary of 3 months... now in those three months i havent heard from her.... now of all times... i log on to my facebook and she finally contacts me... I find out the reason she has been avoiding me... turns out... she is pregnant.... and she got scared of wat my reaction was gonna be so she avoided me... it took her 3 months to tell me this.... and the reason she finally told me was because she thought I was moving when i posted that I was leaving comming may... now if i didnt do that i would have never known wats goin on until very late.... so now... like i said.. I had already moved on thinkin she didnt want to be with me.. and now I am faced with the fact of telling both my parents and my current gf that I am with.... so yea.. thats wats been going on in my life... any ideas on what i should do??? O.o... HELP!!!!!!!111
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Knowing the way your parents are, Good. Fucking. Luck.
Don't know how your new girlfriend will react, but what can you do? If she really wants to be with you, she'll be understanding and ask you what you're going to do. Hope that goes well.
Call me before you come by so I can unlock the door. You know we'll always have a place for you to stay. Just gotta ask you don't run away from the problem. You wouldn't do that. I know you wouldn't.
Bands: Nightcore.. and whatever random rock/techno I've got..
there is no wat ima run from the problem.... ima do wat i have to do...
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I seriously think you need her to get a paternity test though.. because of what you said about her uploading another guy's pic.
you said: "well i have this gf that i though we broke up since the face she would never return my calls and such and she uploads some other dudes picture"
I believe there's a very good chance she's pinning this baby on you because the real father ran out on her. You said she uploaded some other guy's picture during these three months in which you were under the impression that you were no longer together. I think she may not have been 100% honest up to this point. She probably knows you're a stand-up kind of guy so she may just take advantage of that to get her a baby daddy.
Good luck though. This sounds like a really tough situation and I really wish you the best.
Bands: Fuck man.. I don't know.
.......this is a good old fashion...holy fucking shit moment!
i have no idea how to help but we are here for you
neu said: "I believe there's a very good chance she's pinning this baby on you because the real father ran out on her. You said she uploaded some other guy's picture during these three months in which you were under the impression that you were no longer together. I think she may not have been 100% honest up to this point. She probably knows you're a stand-up kind of guy so she may just take advantage of that to get her a baby daddy."
Neu's got a very good point. Also think about this. Assuming it IS your kid.
If she knew she was pregnant, WHY in bloody hell would she go out with someone else KNOWING she had your child? Wouldn't that cause all sorts of problems? You HAVE a reason that you went with someone else. She didn't tell you untill now. That's entirely her fault you left her. This part's easy.
Now, Assuming it's NOT your kid.
We have to wonder WHY would she even ask for a test if she was only with you? Unless she wasn't 100% truthful, which we HAVE to assume she was not, the pictures of this unknown other male is proof enough. If a girl only goes out with one guy, gets pregnant, and has truthfully not gone out with anyone else, then there's absolutly NO reason to do the test. I believe it to be common sence. Babies do not come from thin air. Course.. some girls will get a test even if they're only with one guy. Stupid much? If she did it with only one guy, who the fuck do you think the father is?
Darth Neu.. Duh~ (jk)
Neu: Brainy~ ... I .. Am your father.. ... wait.. I'm the kid? ...no. What was my line again?!
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Maybe he was your typical have sex and run away guy. Pathetic is as pathetic does. She saw you were someone who wouldn't run away, and knew you'd take responsiblity.
OR. Maybe the other guy refused to take care of the baby and (maybe) dumped her when he found out it may not be his? Or just that he doesn't want to take care of the baby. Either way, maybe she could only turn to you.. knowing full well you wouldn't run like a pussy.
Now, I've got nothing against this other guy, I don't even like the way we talk about him like he's a bad person. But we can only go by what we know. Take every different route, and prepare for every outcome. No matter how crazy impossible it is.
Do not tell your mom or girlfriend untill you are back from the vacation. Do not tell either of them anything untill she does the test. And do NOT tell them anything if its NOT your kid.
Your mom will have a cow & a half, a whole litter, and then have 3 more cows. Whether the kid is yours or not. Don't do that. Your girlfriend should understand, but whos to say she wont tell your mom, who.. will then have her 4 1/2+ cows.
Bands: Nightcore.. and whatever random rock/techno I've got..
LOL HENRY XD
Maury : Alright, we have the results of the paternity test! Brian, you are NOT the father! Now as always, we test neu in the event that the guy on the show is proven not to be the father.
neu : WHY DO YOU GUYS ALWAYS HAVE TO PLAYA HATE ON THE OMNISEXUAL??
Maury : And the result of this paternity test proves that neu IS the father.
neu : x_x
henry said: "Your mom will have a cow & a half, a whole litter, and then have 3 more cows. Whether the kid is yours or not. Don't do that. Your girlfriend should understand, but whos to say she wont tell your mom, who.. will then have her 4 1/2+ cows."
lmao I never heard this phrase before. You New Orleans people talk really funny lol
Also, she asked for a paternity test? I thought she claimed it was yours. Either way though, I'd definitely take her up on it or make her do one if she backs down from it. And if she didn't suggest doing one, I'd suggest doing one if I were you.
Bands: Fuck man.. I don't know.
*** UPDATE**** its isnt mine.. she left out one major detail.. the guy who she uploaded the pic for... turns out that it is more of a possiblity it's his than mine.. because we've tried on several occasions and she didnt get pregnant by me.. she screws this guy once and boom there's a baby... so i kno it isnt mine..
Bands: too many to list... LOL...
Bakunyuubaka said: "*** UPDATE**** its isnt mine.. she left out one major detail.. the guy who she uploaded the pic for... turns out that it is more of a possiblity it's his than mine.. because we've tried on several occasions and she didnt get pregnant by me.. she screws this guy once and boom there's a baby... so i kno it isnt mine.."
WAIT.WAIT.WAIT.
You TRIED for a baby?
Fuck you for making these people give this advice. XD
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